Socialization will never be my strong suit, or anything I will ever crave. Coffee shops are different. They allow for the ability to observe others socialization without the push to interact. The same dynamic exist in some that you would find in a school cafeteria. But, without the push to fit in.
That’s what pulls me to them. I don’t fit in. I’m not someone who seeks a crowd or will ever be the center of one. But to sit in my own little quiet space with a warm coffee and a notebook in front of me wile I listen in on social conversations and observe the patterns of people built with a different design than myself. That’s the fuel I crave.